“All you leave is your impact.” That was the thought that lifted me out of a pool of tears and snot yesterday afternoon as I left the hospital having said goodbye to my dear client and friend, Elaine Childs Gowell, www.goodgriefrituals.com. She’d just suffered a massive stroke and I knew it would be the very last time I’d see her alive, If you could call a coma ‘living’. Had it been anyone else, I would have used the words ‘fi...